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August 4, 2011

How to get your 3 year old interested in crafts...

Last week, I received this very sweet email:

“Thank you so much for the wonderful comments. I'm totally inspired by your fabulous toddler crafts.  Can you help me get my three year old interested in crafts.  Do you have any tips?”

It’s taken me a week to put my thoughts and ideas together, but I came up with 5 tips and decided it would be fun to dedicate a whole post to talk about them.

1. Don’t be afraid of messes. Make sure to make preparations for messes so that you and your children are able to relax and enjoy the experience more. When I first started doing crafts with my kids I was extremely paranoid about the messes. We all like a clean house so the idea of paint all over the place and on children’s clothing can really make you squirm. After a couple episodes of paint on clothing (even when using an apron), I decided to let my kids each have a craft shirt that they used every time we did a messy project. I felt like that in itself made the experience better because not only was I no longer paranoid about paint, but my kids were able to relax more and have a good time because they weren’t worried about me being stressed about getting paint on clothing.

I also used to cover my entire table with newspaper before doing a craft but then I discovered these wonderful place mats at Family Dollar. You can simply wash off the mess when you are done in the sink and reuse them over and over. Plus, if any paint does happen to get on the table I have my handy Magic Eraser’s on hand. Seriously, splurge on those things. They work miracles!



2. Start out with no end result in mind. In my opinion, the best way to start getting children interested in crafts is to let them explore painting without having a specific end result in mind. Start by just simply getting out the water colors or paint with the brushes and let them paint all over a piece of paper however they choose. This not only helps them get familiar with the colors, but also teaches them how to properly use the brush and water cup. Once they feel confident in their abilities to paint and switch colors properly, they will be more excited about painting a specific thing.

Here are some of Andy’s projects just after he turned 3.



Once he understood how to control the paint brush and how to use the water cup to switch colors, we were able to expand our projects. This is one of the first projects we did that had an end result in mind. Andy was excited to be able to choose which colors he wanted to paint to make his caterpillar his very own style.



3. Choose projects that interest your child. Both my boys have gone through phases where they completely immerse their lives into certain subjects. Andy loved trains! When he first started talking at 2 yrs old, he seriously had an English accent because his favorite thing to do was watch “Thomas the Train” and play with all his trains. His love for trains pretty much consumed his entire day so I had to learn how to incorporate trains into our crafts so that he would be excited about them.


I found this little wooden train at Robert’s that Andy painted himself, and then his Daddy helped him put glue in the right places and put it together.


He carried that little train around for months and we still have it some where around here. If I had to do it all over again, I wouldn’t have been so keen on painting it exactly as the directions stated. I would have got out more colors and let him choose however he wanted to paint it.

We’ve painted these little wooden sculptures (you can find at Wal-Mart for cheap) several times. I always let them choose which one we buy so they are more excited about painting it. This is Luke when he was only 2 yrs old painting his red airplane.


We had a phase where my kids loved fish and sharks so we made these cute pop open shark cards. I drew the outline of the shark and the boys colored them.


If you notice now, dinosaurs seem to pop up in our crafts all the time. Dinosaurs are Luke’s thing right now so I just have to go with it and work around his interests.

4. Use different materials to keep crafting exciting. It’s important to mix it up with toddlers so they don’t get bored of doing the same old thing. Now that my kids are older they actually like getting out the paint all the time, but they didn’t feel this way when they were 2 and 3 yrs old.

I found cute foam ocean life stickers at Wal-Mart and we created our own ocean scene.

We made 4th of July Trees by putting square tissue paper pieces on the end of a pencil eraser and gluing it down.


Notice how messy Luke's painting is. It doesn't ever have to be perfect. It's the imperfection that makes a masterpiece in my opinion. Luke was only 2yrs old when we did this so he was literally just starting out. After he tried his best at painting, he got bored and asked me to help him finish.

I cut out different shapes out of pieces of construction paper and the kids enjoyed creating their own robots. After gluing on the shapes, they were able to use glitter glue, little heart sequins, and buttons to add some flare.



We also used to like to go on nature walks and collect things we found to make collages.


Now that my boys are over 4yrs, I still try to find different ways of painting to keep it interesting. Like last week we used a spray bottle to help us paint a Universe scene.


And instead of always using a paint brush, we try different things like using a fork.


5. Incorporate stories, food and activities into crafts. This is currently how I get my kids interested in crafts. I do research before going to the library and pick out stories based on themes to go along with crafts. Looking at Blogs is obviously a great resource for finding books to use.

We also love making snacks to go along with stories, like our Chicka Chicka Boom Boom Tree and Bagel Piggy.



Whenever possible, we also try to have outings that coincide with themes and crafts I have planned.

Earlier when I pictured that train that Andy painted, that next weekend we visited the Tooele Train Museum which is FREE. It is such a little hidden gem for train lovers. They have an entire train car set up with complete scenes and train models going around and around. On Saturdays they also have a guy come out who gives the kids a train ride around a little track.





I always try to plan animal crafts around visits to the zoo, and a couple weeks ago we visited the Aquarium and since then we’ve been reading ocean themed books and I have some crafts planned that I'll be posting soon.

Most importantly, every child is so different and unique. Some things Andy enjoyed doing, Luke didn't and vis-versa. Sometimes it's hit and miss and that's ok! Eventually after trying several things, you are bound to find something crafty that your child enjoys doing. The most important thing is that you are involved with your child. They won't remember the specific crafts you did anyways when they are grown up. They will remember that you were there and that you spent quality time with them.

Thanks so much for the question! I hope this post helped create some inspiration.

Happy Crafting!!

9 comments:

Amanda @ Gratefully Growing in Grace said... Best Blogger Tips

Love this. LOVE it. I need to really work on the mess thing. I put a cheap-o vinyl table cloth on the table when we do crafts and that works pretty well.

Deceptively Educational said... Best Blogger Tips

I totally agree with your suggestions. You definitely have to be okay with making a mess and plan for it and also let your kiddos have some freedom to make things their way. I am always impressed with my oldest son's variations. With little bro getting old enough to be crafty, I can't wait to do more than finger paints with him! Thanks for sharing!

Amanda Joy said... Best Blogger Tips

Awesome post! I need to do more crafting with my kids. It is so hard when I work full time, but eventually I will be home, and we will craft:) I need to make Saturday morning craft day until I get to that point.

Thanks for joining the blog hop again

Jackie Koll said... Best Blogger Tips

Thank you for this!!! I love your ideas and had not thought of the place mat idea. I will have to look for some of those to use with my boys. AND I need to do craft shirts too. I tend to strip them down to a diaper but than they freak out about paint on their tummies LOL

Sarah Boyce said... Best Blogger Tips

You amaze me really and truly, love you sis

Lisa @ Two Bears Farm said... Best Blogger Tips

How funny - we have those EXACT same two placemats! Love it!

These are great tips. My sons would love riding that train.

JDaniel4's Mom said... Best Blogger Tips

I love these tips. I cringe when JDaniel makes a big mess, but I try really hard to sit back and enjoy it.

Little Wonders' Days said... Best Blogger Tips

These are such great tips! I love the food and activities idea too.
I try to allow my kids the "messy" they need while minimizing my pain. So, really messy things are outside or the table is covered in oil cloth etc.

Toddler Approved said... Best Blogger Tips

I agree with your answers too. Your little boys sound a lot like my son. I just shared your post over on our Facebook page. A lot of my friends have asked the same question. This is a great, clear answer. Thanks!!